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First Name

Bryan
Last Name

Barnes
Display Name

jsladder
Age

64 years old
Country

USA
State or Province

Oklahoma
Nearest Big City

Oklahoma City
Sexual Identity

male
Sexual Orientation

men, women
Gender Identity

male
Preferred Pronoun

he / him
Anything Special You'd Like To Say

Looking for what God may have for me. Best friend material. REAL christian.

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Education

I have a bachelor’s in psychology and a third completed with my MBA, but didn’t learn crap in the graduate studies. I have attended 8 universities and consider myself kind of brilliant, but humble enough to know I know so little, but love so much.
Work

I have worked in 60 banks. Do taxes, love mortgage underwriting. Have had over 100 positions in my lifetime.
Hobbies and Interests

My biggest hobby is loving others enough to invest in their welfare. I have collected coins, LOVE minerals, LOVE children especially God’s children kind of thing.
Pets, Children, Grandchildren

I claim 9 children, from natural to foster to adopted…..I have no natural grandchildren.
Faith / Denomination

This is serious, but not tough. I am Christian. I am a licensed Christian minister. I am “retired”…bs….from full time ministry as a senior pastor. See, this job never ends. I will go on more……My aspiration is to be a Master Servant. I have had many experiences with clean and unclean spirits and the Angel of Death. I understand my authority here and use it to the best of my understanding.
Relationship Status

I have fallen in love at first sight 3 times. The first became my wife of 16 years, the second, a male partner of 12 years. The third is complicated because he has so many struggles that I have just had to hand him over to God, and though I love him so dearly, and because I am pretty much a prude, I never took him. However….I do not know what God may have for me….man…woman….something in between? I do not limit Father. He made me to understand so many variables……..
Degree of "Outness"

Oh, whatever……It is important for me to put some boundaries….Ladies….sorry, but I am probably open to only a potential child bearing partner. I have no sons and I love being a dad. In that, also, guys….I am SUCH a dad type that I seemingly am attracted to much younger…..Not looking for a son for sex, but damn…….don’t know what else to say. I am 57. That kind of sucks, but I am a handsome guy….all my hair….very strong….about 6 foot, 38 inch waist, six foot nine armspan, size 13 shoe, decently endowed and give the best massages ever.